Twin Flame, Soul Mate, Reincarnation?

I believe every one has a twin flame or a soul mate. I believe in reincarnation. I also believe that ones soul mate or true flame follows them through each reincarnation. My question is, if you are male and your soul mate reincarnates as the same , does this have anything to do with your uality? If you met your soul mate I feel that uality would not matter in that situation. But does anyone think that the gender your soul mate comes back as has any bearing on ones uality, even if you have not yet met your soul mate?