Why do Men hate women with Abs???

Every time im at the gym I get the girls swooning but where are the guys... ok fine maybe there aren't too many guys at my gym but still. whyyyyy. guys i've been with seem insecure about it. i mean its no 8 pack! i still have a feminine body with hip and and a nice chest, but i always get thrown into the dominant status bc of my body tone.. im a girl for cryin out loud!! no im not a "paper bag" either!